hypocrite

it has many flaws being hypocritical, as one of my seniors in squash, is definitely a hypocrite.

let me raise an example: currently, there is an internal quarrel between the captian and the rest of the team, and our coach tried to step in to solve our mini vendeta. when asked,'what about captain pisess you off most, so much that you ostracise him'. he replied that he was displeased that our captain took up a lot of space on the benches, and he was egoistic over fluke wins.

after our coach left, he started swearing that all those claims were false, and gave a whole new sets of complains and expressed how he really felt. but if the coach gets false information, his effectiveness in solving the problem is lower, as he does not have true blue statements of the team.

if you are hypocritical, the only person you are demoting and sabotaging is yourself. others may look up to you at first, but will satart to despise you after they find out your scheme. if you give comments which are hypocritical, people will not be able to help you effectively and completely, thus the only person you sabotage is yourself.

in conclusion, we should be blunt and truthful. if asked a question, answer promptly and truthfuly, only then, will others look up and respect us.